Forget "men are from Mars, women are from Venus", though that is an excellent starting point for a stimulating discussion around a fire-pit.

Today, July 4, the better blog is George Lakoff's dichotomous analysis of:

1.  Why many Trump supporters and GOP-supporters are enthusiastic, even as the policies and practices of DJT and the GOP work to their disadvantage?

2.  Why is there such visceral hatred of the Affordable Care Act, even though it benefits many in the GOP and DJT-backers?

I recommend reading it to see if it resonates for you and becomes a platform from which a turn-around can be achieved.

http://readersupportednews.org/opinion2/277-75/44489-two-questions-about-trump-and-republicans-that-stump-progressives

We want to get to solutions but analysis is the best starting place.  Please feel free to weigh in, react, and propose.  We have a country to lose or to help save.